Here is an example, not a real person. A retired school bus driver wants grab bars in the shower and a second stair railing before he shares his home. The quote is more than he wants to spend at once, and he does not know where to ask.

Help exists, but it is scattered across federal, state, local, and nonprofit programs, each with its own rules, limits, and waiting lists. This guide lists the main ones and how to reach them. For what to change, and which repairs to handle first, see "Making your home safer to age in and to share."

Where to start

Federal programs

Nonprofit and local help

Taxes: the medical expense deduction

Some home changes made for medical care may count toward a medical expense deduction, depending on the change, your home, and your whole return. The IRS rules are in IRS Publication 502, for 2025 returns. Free VITA and Tax Counseling for the Elderly sites offer basic tax help, and the IRS notes that services vary by site. Before you book, call and confirm the site can handle rental income from a room and the medical expense deduction. If not, ask a paid tax professional. Questions to ask: Does this change qualify? Does any increase in my home's value reduce what counts? Do I itemize, and are my medical expenses high enough to deduct? Does renting out a room change the answer?

Does rent from a home seeker affect eligibility?

It depends on the program. Ask each one before you apply:

Our guide "Will sharing my home affect my benefits?" covers how rent can affect other benefits.

Questions to ask before you apply

Conversation starters

If you are an adult child or friend talking with an older adult:

If you are an older adult talking with family or caregivers:

Help exists, but it is scattered across federal, state, local, and nonprofit programs, each with its own rules, limits, and waiting lists.

Where to get help

Last reviewed September 26, 2026. This guide is general information, not legal, tax, or benefits advice. Program rules, amounts, and funding change, so confirm details with each program, and talk with a free tax or legal help program before you rely on a deduction or sign a loan.

SourcesShow the sourcesHide the sources The numbers in this guide match the sources below.
  1. state-by-state directory
  2. NCSHA's state agency finder
  3. USDA Rural Development
  4. HUD USER program evaluation
  5. joint HHS, HUD, and USDA bulletin, PDF
  6. Medicaid.gov, 1915(c) waivers
  7. VA HISA page
  8. VA disability housing grants
  9. how to apply
  10. About LIHEAP
  11. Medicare.gov
  12. Medicare Rights Center
  13. KFF, Medicare Advantage in 2026

Last reviewed September 25, 2026